Become a Life Winner

Become a Life Winner 

When someone tells you, “You don’t want to ask for that.” Answer “The bugs in my teeth don’t bother me. The ride is worth it.”

Life winners believe in themselves, and make a difference when they make an effort in manifesting their dreams and goals. These individuals believe they can overcome and accomplish the impossible. They competing with themselves by constantly braving themselves with more challenging tasks to unlock their true potential. As their potential grows in all areas of life, they put their best foot forward whether experiencing a challenging development or overcoming a personal weakness. Life winners acquire the Emotional Intelligence trait, and make use of the buffer of time between the focus and goal/dream. They stay aligned with their vibration during challenging developments and become creative with different opportunities. Life winners share a burning passion for the keys of success by keeping an open-mind, accepting feedback, learning, and problem-solving. They conquer their weakness by appreciating the fact that they may not win all the time, by implementing a strategic philosophy of lessons learned and creating a new reality. 

1.   Think of your goals and write them down

Thinking of a bright future will motivate you to set goals, and manifest. When writing, your goals must be clear and specific. Make an effort to achieve them.

2.    Achieve Your Smaller Goals

Before achieving your big goals set smaller goals. Once you have achieved your smaller goals, you will feel joy and motivation to achieve your bigger goals.

3.    Document your progress

This is the art of discipline: you document your achievement efforts. Implement certain ideals and feel as if you manifested.

4.    Get Recognized by Others

Spend time with like-minded people, who will support and encourage you by receiving praises and recognition for continued motivation.

5.    Motivate Yourself with Rewards

When you accomplish a goal reward yourself because it will help you to wait for the next reward after accomplishing your next goal. 

Emotional Intelligence, Rediscovering My Well-Being Part III

Emotional Intelligence
Rediscovering My Well-Being Part III

Emotional Intelligence is an acquired trait?

As I studied emotional intelligence, I considered the human brain and marveled at its skillfull abilities, which led to the understanding that a person, who uses emotional intelligence has captured the acquired trait of reacting with response ability, by the act of appropriate, spiritual, graceful, and kind behavior in a situation. A person, who reacts irrational lacks emotional intelligence in a situation. 

Certain areas of the human brain help us to control our thoughts and actions. At the very back of the brain near the neck area, we find the reptilian brain which is formed six months in utero. The reptilian brain is our lowest base instincts which tells us when we are hungry and tired. This is our impulse control. Just above the reptilian brain is the limbic system and this is where our emotions are formed. The cortex begins to mature by the ages of 6 or 7, by 12 or 13 it has partially matured, and by 20 it has fully matured. This means we have the ability to think with our cortex because the cortex is where our core values generate. Our cortex helps us to control our limbic system and reptilian brain by allowing us to discern,“Does this make sense? Is this what I want?" or "Will this help with my long-term goals because my short-term and long-term goals are at odd with each other".

To acquire the trait of emotional intelligence is to refine our personality and character by our response in everyday life. When faced with a difficult situation, we think through what upset us and our response to it.because there is a time and place for everything. This acquired trait is a tremendous gift because it brings us to a higher level of thought, We are led by our intellect or philosophy, and philosophy is led by core values. What we choose to think controls our emotions because emotions are unformed and not contained.

Our core values help us control our emotions by controlling our thoughts, speech, and actions. We understand “It isn’t all about me” because we are considerate of the feelings of others. We focus on the big picture of progress and not perfection. We are aware of “I am worthy of love and respect, as I AM. I cannot always please others or fulfill their needs." Everyone has essential value whether or not others judge them positively, and those around us deserve our respect. 

Those, who acquire emotional intelligence are more successful than those, who lack emotional intelligence. Why? Emotional intelligence is the indication of faithfulness by putting off instant gratification for the long-term pleasure. 

Soul's Purpose, Rediscovering My Well-Being Part II

Soul's Purpose
Rediscovering My Well Being Part II

As I reflect on my soul’s purpose, I understand that my potential is unlimited. In controlling my thoughts and emotions I must support my vision by increasing my mental capabilities by taking responsibilities of my thoughts for a positive outcome.

I used to think that instant gratification was the way to manifest one’s abundance, prosperity, health, and wealth. I realized that it doesn’t bring an appreciation for the progress I am bringing forth to manifest my dreams. Instead, my thoughts manifest a buffer of time to appreciate the time I need to realize what I am focused on. This time delay begins when I decide what I want to manifest until the time I gain insight that G-d is about to deliver what I have asked for. 

In other words, life has caused me to create a present tense of reality that hasn’t appeared in my physical reality. I haven’t allowed myself to experience it with the feeling of alignment within my heart’s desire because I’m focused on its absence.

Why not use this buffer of time to appreciate the realization of:what I truly want or don’t want with a decisional implementation to find hope right now, by forgetting the manifestation because I will have left out the time.

This means, I shift my thoughts and emotions to the visualization that I have what I asked for NOW because hope doesn’t have a buffer of time. I formed a habit of consistent thought and action by not noticing I am without, and BANG I received what I asked. Rather than obsessing: 1) Why I don’t have it 2) Why it is hard not to have it 3) Worried when will it come. Feeling: 1) Angry that is hasn’t arrived 2) Anxious and concerned because my manifestation has not arrived.  

Rediscovering My Well-Being Part I

Rediscovering My Well-Being 

I am on a path of rediscovering my well-being by relearning how to change my life by changing my thoughts. Each day, I find myself contemplating situations that caused me to experience negative emotions and finding a resolve to those emotions. I am learning to come into alignment with my heart's desire before proceeding. I know the only reason, I have not received what I desire is because I am holding negative patterns that do not match my true desires. 

I always understood that my thoughts are powerful and this power attracts the manifestation of my thoughts, words, and actions into my physical reality but lost sight of "I am" when I allowed myself to question "Who am I.".I convinced myself that I was a bad person and surrendered my joy, happiness, and abundance for a swirling vortex of depression. My thoughts were lonely, angry, worry, and disappointment. When I realized I had tucked away my belief of abundance, prosperity, good health, joy, and happiness I crawled out of my vortex and began to realign myself. I began to look for things I appreciated in relationships. I looked for positive characteristics in myself and others, and appreciated myself and others. I began to reflect on positive events of the past, present, and future and match the vibration of my desires. In doing so, I became grateful for everyone and everything in my life and the lessons each brings. I see different opportunities in the winds of the North, South, East, and West and I get to choose those that are best for me. 

I invite you to keep company, as I blog my achievements thru lessons learned.